In February of 2018, Kim Cattrall sent a clear statement to Sarah Jessica Parker and the world, “We were never friends.”
After Kim Cattrall’s brother was found dead at the young age of 55, Sarah Jessica Parker shared her support for Kim on social media, as well as telling Extra, “We all send her our love and condolences and grant her the privacy that she’s asked for.” Although Kim did thank her fans, friends, and “Sex and the City” colleagues for their outpouring of support, she responded to Parker via Instagram saying, “I don’t need your love and support at this tragic time.”
Kim Cattrall also very eloquently discussed her relationship with Sarah Jessica Parker and her disappointments with her SATC female costars on Adamus Witcombe.
What interested me was Sarah Jessica Parker’s very shocked response to Kim’s statement about their relationship. She was clearly taken off guard, shocked, and did not have a clear response as her mind was still processing what Kim had said.
Many fans of Sex and the City have chosen a side between the two ladies, but I have decided to take a look at Sarah and Kim’s astrology charts to see if I could gain better insight into the disconnect between them.
One of the first aspects between them that caught by eye was Kim’s Mercury Opposition Sarah’s Chiron.
Kim’s Mercury Opposition Sarah’s Chiron
Kim and Sarah have difficulty communicating in a manner that is rewarding. Instead they seem to hurt each other’s feelings through saying the wrong thing. In particular Sarah seems to upset Kim. The problem is that old hurtful memories surface in this relationship. Kim and Sarah have subconsciously attracted each other in order to learn valuable life lessons, but the journey is not smooth. Kim is particularly sensitive to the words used by Sarah, and has difficulty listening with emotional calm. Kim may accuse Sarah of being insensitive and uncaring; however, Sarah feels wrongfully accused. She genuinely struggles to find a better way of communicating what she means. These misunderstandings could lead to a breakdown in the relationship, or they could finally result in a better understanding of themselves and each other. Either way compassion is a key ingredient to successfully overcoming past hurts and developing loving communication.
Kim Cattrall and Sarah Jessica Parker do have a plethora of harmonious aspects including:
Kim’s Sun Trine Sarah’s Mercury
Kim’s Mercury Trine Sarah’s Jupiter
Kim’s Mercury Trine Sarah’s Ascendant
Kim’s Venus Sextile Sarah’s Mars
Kim’s Venus Trine Sarah’s Saturn
Kim’s Venus Sextile Sarah’s Uranus
Kim’s Venus Trine Sarah’s Neptune
Kim’s Venus Sextile Sarah’s Pluto
Kim’s Venus Trine Sarah’s Chiron
Kim’s Mars Sextile Sarah’s Jupiter
Kim’s Mars Trine Sarah’s Neptune
Kim’s Jupiter Trine Sarah’s Moon
Kim’s Saturn Trine Sarah’s Venus
Kim’s Uranus Trine Sarah’s Sun
Kim’s Uranus Trine Sarah’s Venus
Kim’s Chiron Sextile Sarah’s Sun
Kim’s North Node Trine Sarah’s Sun
Kim’s North Node Trine Sarah’s Venus
People dream of having aspects like this with their friends, lovers, family, and coworkers. This is an impressive list of beautiful aspects between these two women, several of them including Venus. Venus rules love (and your relationships with women). If you have positive aspects that include Venus, the relationship has a greater chance of success due to love, even through the rough patches. Prince Charles and Princess Diana, for example, had far more harmonious aspects that negative aspects in their charts, yet none of them included Venus. Had they not gotten married so quickly and so publicly, they probably would’ve formed a long lasting friendship and bond that would have lasted them throughout the years. But due to no harmonious aspects with Venus, there was not enough affection between Charles and Diana for their marriage to survive.
The list of harmonious aspects between Kim and Sarah’s charts, however, leads me to believe that something must have happened towards the end of their working SATC relationship that left them with hurt feelings and misunderstandings. And unfortunately, since they no longer work together or see each other on a regular basis, the opportunity for them to mend these wounds and clear up misunderstandings isn’t as likely as if would be if they still saw on each other on a regular basis. The misunderstandings have had the opportunity to manifest and take on a life of their own.
But I don’t believe from this list of positive aspects that they did not genuinely adore each other and have a wonderful time through the Sex and the City years. (So rest assured, Carrie and Samantha fans, the bond you saw on screen was not just acting!)
It’s too grand a list to deny a genuine enjoyment and love of each other’s company – some of the time at the very least.
That being said, Kim Cattrall is a Leo and Sarah is an Aries. These two fierce fire signs both desire and demand center stage. Leo and Aries have genuine admiration and respect for each other. These signs have an unabashed “me first” orientation, both wanting to see how brightly they can shine and how far they can propel their dynamic energies. Both signs can be impatient and proud, and there’s always competition between them to be number one. Leo energy needs applause, warmth, and adoration – services which fast paced Aries may not always provide. Aries is keen on doing whatever it desires, without restriction, whether this meets with another’s approval or not.
Leo is more careful about the manner in which it lets its hair down. Leo seeks an appreciative audience and cares about the approval of others. Aries is more bluntly a “what you see is what you can” sign, not one to cater to popular demands. Leo needs to remember not to be resentful if Aries neglects to show them proper respect. It is more than likely due to Aries not slowing down long enough to recognize what Leo needs rather than a true lack of respect. Aries, on the other hand, needs to be more sensitive to Leo’s need for appreciation and its dignified nature. Aries’s impulsive actions may prove an embarrassment to Leo, for Aries is not as noble or high-minded. On the positive side, Aries gives Leo the assertiveness to charge ahead and take chances, while Leo can help teach Aries to stabilize and follow things through.
At their best, these two are honorable in intention and forthright in action. They won’t plot or scheme to get what they want, but will instead bravely do battle in an upfront matter. Sneak attacks or underhandedness is not their game.
It is no surprise that Kim Cattrall feels undervalued by the perceived lack of appreciation from Sarah, as well as Cynthia Nixon and Kristin Davis. Leo rules the heart and this radiant fire sign needs to shine in the presence of others. Highly assertive, single-minded Aries does not need nor seek out the assistance of others and therefore can easily miss the supportive spotlight a Leo shines on them. Exclusion, whether intentional or unintentional deeply wounds the Leo and she will not hesitant to announce her displeasure in front of a live audience.